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Absolutely! I’m grateful to hear you draw the connection between bereavement and mediumship. I’ve always been fairly open and have had varying kinds of access between realms throughout my life, but when I lost my father and shortly thereafter my mother, the doors flung wide open. The difference I experience from before the losses to after are that now I feel I am able to turn the dial up or down. I felt instruction on how to open the doors at will and allow communication to come through me. I also experience physical blockages when I don’t open the ‘spirit’ door often enough..and then as soon as I make space for it, other things in my body or life release and begin to flow again. But yes, a major rite-of-passage was instigated by death.

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Hi Akka, thanks for your comment and welcome to the community! That's interesting what you say about being able to turn the dials up and down. My mediumship eased my grief tremendously because whenever I go through something difficult, my initial thought is 'I will be able to use this lesson, this pain, to help others one day'. This thought has helped me heal from many losses.

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Yes, after losing a baby. I had a profound experience after that which I now realise was me connecting with that baby's soul x

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Hi Sian, I'm very sorry for your loss. I firmly believe that our spirit children are with loved ones (and with us) on the other side.

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I definitely experienced such a change when my friend Teri died. I wrote this about getting to know her again on the other side: https://medium.com/@rayanngordon/friendship-after-death-how-teri-dillion-rocked-my-world-in-life-and-beyond-c67799587357

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Hi Rayann, thanks for your comment and welcome to the community! Why not tell us a bit about your story here in the comments?

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Yes, I experienced this too with my grandmother.

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I'd love to know more about your experience with your grandmother. Do you practice mediumship now?

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Thanks Lauren, I am a medium, but not working with people that passed over. I was in contact with my grandmother though after she died; the first sign I received was in a soul retrieval 25 yrs ago. For a more detailed exchange I am happy to do that by email.

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