Think about the most important relationships in your life.
How much control do you have over them?
At best, it’s probably around 33.33333%.
The other person has the same.
And we have to portion out another third, roughly, to rogue influences - mothers-in-law, and conspiracy theorists and such.
Think of your relationship with a passed loved one via a medium in the same way.
You’re not fully in control of how the reading pans out. Neither is the medium, nor your communicator.
But… you CAN take care of your third. And in so doing, you give yourself the best chance of success for receiving an epic mediumship reading. A miraculous one. One that has the power to change your life by alleviating the agony of loss and the fear of death.
Here are three actionable steps YOU can take to increase the likelihood that your next reading will be jaw-dropping, awe-inspiring and soul-healing.
Clean up your own energy.
Here are some energy states that need cleaned up.
Raw desperation
Crushing expectations
Angry demands
Denial
Bitter cynicism
Controlling
Skeptical adversarialism
Mediumship is a dance. Imagine trying to dance with a new partner while brimming with any of these energies? It makes mediumship difficult in exactly the same way it makes dancing difficult.
Now, I know you may come to a medium feeling various shades of awful. That’s understandable. Loss is painful. But try to clean up anything based in rage or contempt. These emotions block you off from connection. Journalling about your feelings may help. Or you may need more time.
In the lead up to your reading, practice connection and curiosity.
Spend time with others instead of isolating. Let your gaze fall gently and with wonder on the world around you. These states are good rehearsals for the state of spirit. Align with connection and curiosity often, and it will be easier for the medium to align with you.
Listen to tonal music.
I recommend binaural beats or a singing bowl sound bath. There are many talented sound artists on YouTube. The relationship between music and mediumship is not well understood. But it’s there, and it’s POWERFUL. Try it and see for yourself. Listen before seeing a medium. Gently make your request for contact within your own mind. And visualise yourself coming into alignment with the medium and your loved ones. Harmonic alignment is the key.
Please tell me in a comment - which one of these tips speaks to you the most?
Ps. I'm delighted to let you know that Spirit Sessions is now open and accepting members!
Our first session takes place on Tuesday 26th August 2025, from 7pm - 8.30pm UK time.
...and subsequent Tuesdays thereafter.
Spirit Sessions is for you if:
- You'd like to connect with spirit and participate in a group mediumship demonstration, with a chance of being the receiver of a message from a passed loved one.
- You want to supercharge your life with powerful guidance and support in the form of intuitive coaching. Ask about health, wealth, relationships, career, spirituality, purpose and big life changes.
- You'd thrive within a consistent community of likeminded friends and spiritual seekers, giving you a safe space to check-in and be held each week.
Prior to our first session...
Sign up now and you will receive:
A special introductory membership rate.
A guided meditation that will show you how to meet your loved ones in spirit.
Weekly video tutorials (starting next week) on how to prepare for an epic mediumship reading, and how to get your breakthrough with coaching.
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Yeah, definitely raising your vibration makes the connection stronger.