“Self-love - real self-love - is hard. It means disappointing people. You need to pay your damn bills on time. It involves having difficult conversations with loved ones. This is the entry price of mediumship. Good mediumship is all about resonance. It happens on the vibration of love. And the more you tend to that state and access that vibration in your daily life, the easier it is to access in the moment of a reading.”
“Intimacy should be earned. To tell someone you can communicate with the dead is a pretty intimate thing to disclose. And if they are the kind of person who goes to a 9-to-5, and never looks up - never thinks about what happens when you die - it’s like speaking a foreign language to them. They do not understand. A lot of the judgement mediums experience comes from that lack of understanding.”
Lauren Grace and I talked about these ideas and more on The Afterlight Podcast. We called our episode Taking Back Your Power. Many mediums become obsessed with service and they over give. Mediums who do this mean well - they want to help as many people as possible, and they want to practice their abilities to become proficient in what they do.
But what if I told you that, in some important ways, saying ‘no’, drawing a boundary, and focusing on caring for yourself first, is the way to improve the depth, accuracy and consistency of your mediumship?
Check out the podcast episode now.
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